Julia Miles Julia Miles

Are you gaslighting yourself?

Most of us are familiar with the term – gaslighting.

We know that it’s a type of emotional abuse where the abuser uses minimisation and manipulation so that the victim or person being abused starts to question their reality.

Many people think that only narcissists gaslight people, but in truth anyone could gaslight you. And sadly, after suffering a trauma or triggering situation, a lot of people inadvertently start to gaslight themselves.

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Julia Miles Julia Miles

Stop Saying Yes When You Really Want to Say NO!

If you are habitually saying 'yes' at home - to your kids, to your partner, to your extended family, to additional work, etc., out of feelings of obligation, guilt or people pleasing - then saying yes is the wrong decision. You need to start saying No.

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